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May 30 / 31, 2026
Hosea: A Strange Love Story
Dr. Henry Schorr

     Hosea is a heartbreaking love story that powerfully illustrates God’s amazing, faithful love for His people. When Hosea was young and unmarried, the Lord said to him, “Go, marry a promiscuous woman and have children with her.” So Hosea married Gomer.

     Bible scholars speculate that Gomer was forced into slavery and somewhere along the way her master (perhaps for financial gain) forced her into prostitution and later put her on the auction block to be sold. While she was being auctioned off, Hosea walked by, noticed her, and fell in love with her. Hosea undoubtedly knew she had been with other men but that didn’t dissuade him because he believed she had not chosen this lifestyle.

     God told Hosea, ‘Go ahead and take her as your wife. You have my blessing because through her I’m going to teach you, and all of Israel, how great my love is for you.’

     Some years later, Gomer was unfaithful to Hosea and she left him. She returned to prostitution and eventually ended up on the auction block again. During all this time Hosea never stopped loving Gomer. Then word came to Hosea that his wifewas about to be sold again in the slave market.

     God said to Hosea, “Go and show your love to her again in the same way I love my people Israel.” So Hosea went to the marketplace and bought his wife back again. Then he tenderly embraced her and told her, “Despite all you’ve done, I have never stopped loving you, and I want you to know that I’m not going to stop loving you.” Hosea’s unconditional love so overwhelmed her that from this point on she became an honest, faithful and loving wife.

     God included this unusual love story in the Scriptures to help us understand how much He loves us and to show us that He longs for us to love HIM above all else.

     Our relationship with God centers not on our faithfulness but on HIS faithfulness!! God loves all of us despite our brokenness or our sinful condition. God’s love is unconditional and eternal. Yes, there are always consequences that come when we disobey God. He will discipline us or allow us to be disciplined. But His underlying motivation is always love—a love that never ends!! God’s love is unconditional and eternal. His arms are always extended to us. He longs for us to come home.

     God uses sexual imagery in the Scriptures to help us grasp how passionately He loves. This imagery speaks to our feelings and emotions rather than just to our minds.

     This strange love story shows us that we often do the same thing to God. Sinning isn’t just about breaking God’s law; it’s an indication that spiritually we’re in bed with another lover, and it breaks God’s heart. You know you are having an affair with something other than God when something other than God defines your worth and your identity or when most of your thoughts, emotions, passion and even financial resources are devoted to it.

     If we are in bed with anyone or anything other than God, we will not only miss His best for us in this life but one day we will face devastating disappointment and despair. Our unfaithfulness hurts God in the same way we are hurt when the person we love walks out on us.

      We can crave what God can give us—more than His love and presence. OR we can accept His invitation to sit with Him, seize the opportunity to know Him better, and experience His incredible love for us.

IN - PURSUE RELATIONSHIP

1. Share something in your life that quietly takes God's place or pulls your heart away from Him?

2. Describe what “faithfulness” looks like to you in your relationships.

UP - PURSUE GOD

1. Giving as much detail as possible, describe the relationship between Hosea and Gomer. How does Gomer illustrate Israel's relationship with God?

2. Describe Hosea's feelings and actions towards Gomer. How does Hosea illustrate God's heart for His people Israel? And for us?

OUT - PURSUE MISSION

1. Discuss with your group how you can be a model of God's love towards others as demonstrated by Hosea.

2. After Hosea purchased Gomer the second time, did God return their lost time or remove the scars of suffering? What does this mean for us?

Personal Reflection

No one knows your journey in life better than God and you. Consider how Hosea exemplifies God’s love towards his people even in their depravity and disloyalty. Then, sit with God, open and read your Bible, pray and meditate on what action He is calling you to do. 

The Word (NIV)

Hosea 1:3-5

1 The word of the Lord that came to Hosea son of Beeri during the reigns of Uzziah, Jotham, Ahaz and Hezekiah, kings of Judah, and during the reign of Jeroboam son of Jehoash king of Israel:

2 When the Lord began to speak through Hosea, the Lord said to him, “Go, marry a promiscuous woman and have children with her, for like an adulterous wife this land is guilty of unfaithfulness to the Lord.” 3 So he married Gomer daughter of Diblaim, and she conceived and bore him a son.

4 Then the Lord said to Hosea, “Call him Jezreel, because I will soon punish the house of Jehu for the massacre at Jezreel, and I will put an end to the kingdom of Israel. 5 In that day I will break Israel’s bow in the Valley of Jezreel.”

6 Gomer conceived again and gave birth to a daughter. Then the Lord said to Hosea, “Call her Lo-Ruhamah (which means “not loved”), for I will no longer show love to Israel, that I should at all forgive them. 7 Yet I will show love to Judah; and I will save them—not by bow, sword or battle, or by horses and horsemen, but I, the Lord their God, will save them.”

8 After she had weaned Lo-Ruhamah, Gomer had another son. 9 Then the Lord said, “Call him Lo-Ammi (which means “not my people”), for you are not my people, and I am not your God.

10 “Yet the Israelites will be like the sand on the seashore, which cannot be measured or counted. In the place where it was said to them, ‘You are not my people,’ they will be called ‘children of the living God.’ 11 The people of Judah and the people of Israel will come together; they will appoint one leader and will come up out of the land, for great will be the day of Jezreel.

“Say of your brothers, ‘My people,’ and of your sisters, ‘My loved one.’ 2 “Rebuke your mother, rebuke her, for she is not my wife, and I am not her husband. Let her remove the adulterous look from her face and the unfaithfulness from between her breasts. 3 Otherwise I will strip her naked and make her as bare as on the day she was born; I will make her like a desert, turn her into a parched land, and slay her with thirst.

4 I will not show my love to her children, because they are the children of adultery.5 Their mother has been unfaithful and has conceived them in disgrace. She said, ‘I will go after my lovers, who give me my food and my water, my wool and my linen, my olive oil and my drink.’ 6 Therefore I will block her path with thornbushes; I will wall her in so that she cannot find her way. 7 She will chase after her lovers but not catch them; she will look for them but not find them.

Then she will say, ‘I will go back to my husband as at first, for then I was better off than now.’ 8 She has not acknowledged that I was the one who gave her the grain, the new wine and oil, who lavished on her the silver and gold— which they used for Baal.

9 “Therefore I will take away my grain when it ripens, and my new wine when it is ready. I will take back my wool and my linen, intended to cover her naked body. 10 So now I will expose her lewdness before the eyes of her lovers; no one will take her out of my hands. 11 I will stop all her celebrations: her yearly festivals, her New Moons, her Sabbath days—all her appointed festivals. 12 I will ruin her vines and her fig trees, which she said were her pay from her lovers; I will make them a thicket, and wild animals will devour them. 13 I will punish her for the days she burned incense to the Baals; she decked herself with rings and jewelry, and went after her lovers, but me she forgot,” declares the Lord.

14 “Therefore I am now going to allure her; I will lead her into the wilderness and speak tenderly to her. 15 There I will give her back her vineyards, and will make the Valley of Achor a door of hope. There she will respond as in the days of her youth, as in the day she came up out of Egypt.

16 “In that day,” declares the Lord, “you will call me ‘my husband’; you will no longer call me ‘my master.’ 17 I will remove the names of the Baals from her lips; no longer will their names be invoked. 18 In that day I will make a covenant for them with the beasts of the field, the birds in the sky and the creatures that move along the ground. Bow and sword and battle I will abolish from the land, so that all may lie down in safety. 19 I will betroth you to me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness and justice, in love and compassion. 20 I will betroth you in faithfulness, and you will acknowledge the Lord.

21 “In that day I will respond,” declares the Lord—“I will respond to the skies, and they will respond to the earth; 22 and the earth will respond to the grain, the new wine and the olive oil, and they will respond to Jezreel. 23 I will plant her for myself in the land; I will show my love to the one I called ‘Not my loved one.’ I will say to those called ‘Not my people,’ ‘You are my people’; and they will say, ‘You are my God.’”

3 The Lord said to me, “Go, show your love to your wife again, though she is loved by another man and is an adulteress. Love her as the Lord loves the Israelites, though they turn to other gods and love the sacred raisin cakes.”

2 So I bought her for fifteen shekels of silver and about a homer and a lethek of barley. 3 Then I told her, “You are to live with me many days; you must not be a prostitute or be intimate with any man, and I will behave the same way toward you.”

4 For the Israelites will live many days without king or prince, without sacrifice or sacred stones, without ephod or household gods. 5 Afterward the Israelites will return and seek the Lord their God and David their king. They will come trembling to the Lord and to his blessings in the last days.

 

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